10 CRITICAL MONEY RELATED QUESTIONS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD ASK HER INTENDING SPOUSE








 It's about time we discuss the over looked questions that every intending spouse or couple especially women should ask. I say this because many under the guise of love and affection ignore intricate financial matters. Many also pretend, they don't care about the "money".  Ohhhhhhhh you should care about it, infact it should be a criteria before you say I DO!!!Financial problems have drowned many marriages.


In all I still support patience, but patience without works, just as faith without works is dead. Same applies to a farmer who plants, and waits for it to germinate. Every human should water the fields, weed the grass, wait for it to germinate and then reap the harvest. It takes hardwork, so DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS, especially  if you discover that your man isn't ready to work. Believe me you cannot change laziness. 



Now to the crux of the matter.

10 significant marriage saving financial questions every woman should ask.

1. What do you do for a living and how do you plan to raise your current financial status?

2. What's the estimate of your monthly income and are you extravagant?

3. Do you have any outstanding debts, if yes, how do you plan on settling it?

4. If you start a family, how do you intend to cater for it?

5. Will I be allowed to control my money as well as own investment s, or would you dictate it for me?

6. How do we contribute towards the upkeep of the family in terms of sharing ratio, will it be 50/50, 20/80, 30/70?

7. How do you expect me to assist you especially in terms of finance and catering for the family?

8. Do you prefer a joint or single account ownership?

9. What happens if we discover that we spent money meant for the upkeep of the house and children on frivolities?

10. How do we assure the future of the children(ask how kids inview)


 
 
Also I know many men will object but believe me, there are matters of the heart that stays hidden just to maintain a temporary status quo. When the walls shake a little, it tears down completely due to unspoken words..so if your fiancee pose these questions, you should be happy, proud and bold to answer. Say it as it is. A woman who loves you will stick around.

The truth is that no woman wants to suffer. Many are ready to support but wants to know the entire truth about a man's state of affairs. 

Women love finding a balance. They earn their money, support the family and hope to be looked after. If as a man, whether rich or poor, you finally actualize this, then you have succeeded in keeping your marriage to 70πŸ’―. 

Lastly, every woman have to become the CFOs of their financial lives and learn to take control of the income they earn now or start doing something, instead of waiting for a man to increase your income. 

As for me I admire hardwork, riches will definitely come to those who work smart.

Big ups to every strong, vibrant, independent lady breaking the bias. May you attract what you portray and never settle for less because society deems it or to pacify someboris ego 😁😁😁.

Good luck. 







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